Married Go Round Photography

Please remember that if you like the work on any of these photos, you should look up the studios responsible - each is one I have seen work from and found something I enjoy; all are listed so that you can find them for your event.  

 
Now that I have had a few days to goof off ... it is time to get back to that list I gave you the other day.  Today I am going to cover the ones that will have a special place in my own wedding album. And I'll start with something that can become a disaster so quickly it almost hurts.

Photo Credit:  Ampersand Photography

My wedding gown is hanging in what was once my bedroom at my mother's house across town. At some point fairly soon I will take a few photos of it so details and those lovely “lonely gown” shots can begin the album I will someday build for my wedding photos. I think the biggest part is making sure that the whole scene is carefully planned and executed. My own plan involves a tribute to my grandfather since he had such an impact on my life.

There are a number of fantastic things I have taken but still get that fluttering thrill every time I line up the shot and click the shutter.  The thought put into what I will do before this shot happens is one of those drawn out moments that makes my stomach clench.  There is a little fear that it will not manage to live up to what is in my head, but I cannot wait to see it.

The sequence I have in mind for my wedding actually includes some other great elements that I adore, an idea of childhood memories. One version of this I love is done through use of the rope swing. It is that kind of childhood or celebration salute that blends right into the next style that I adore; though my choice of childish prop is a bit more massive. For that reason I plan on letting it have a starring role in the images of myself and my bridal party.

Photo Credit:  Akelis Studios

I adore my bridesmaid. She is one of the most amazing souls I have ever had the privilege to encounter in my life. We share so much, so many laughs and tears, and I cannot imagine how I could ever go without her at my wedding. The thrill of getting my beautiful best friend to model her ruby red gown for her own portraits in that album is something I am looking forward to greatly. For her I have this image in my head of sitting on one of the lavish painted horses that decorate the classic carousel I most covet.

Yes, I am going to have my bridal portraits on a carousel!

Photo Credit:  Akelis Studios

The goal is for both of us to take a ride along with our children – all boys – and take some perfect mommy moment photos we can share with our kids as they get older. I want to have that moment with the breeze brushing back my veil and those sweet moments with the boy. Eventually we will add in my husband, our best man and his two children, and our other groomsmen. The idea of a wonderful riot of color around my husband and I as we kiss on the spinning ride is something I have held in my head for years.

I adore the colors and lights, the carnival feeling, that matches the lively party I want for our wedding day. Something between a mad-hatter tea party and the country festival from Mary Poppins is what I have in mind for our reception. We'll have tea-pot center pieces, lemony finger cakes, and my steampunk details for the slightly science fictional side that happens in everything my loving nerd man encounters.

And speaking of the men... how about those manly details that should really get some photographic love? I'm a sucker for those awesome socks. I love those bright color statement things, most of all the ones that match the bride's bright shoes. Who says the girls get all the fun photos anyway.. just because they might all be secret shoe addicts does not mean you have to let them have all the fun either.

Knot.com Image  (photographer not listed) 
(If you are the photographer, please comment below so I can add your credit)

Pick something fun and go with it guys. I secretly dread the photos that will appear when my husband and his friends get their turn with the camera. I foresee a Dungeons & Dragons game theme since we are all gamers that ran table top back in the days before my pregnancy. I was thinking about ordering dice for the groomsmen as a thank you, so they could well appear at some point.

Photo Credit:  Simply Southern Photography

Don't just let your bride hog the spot light with her girls. Take some time and really think about what you share with your buddies. Would you be the guys walking down the train tracks for that “almost an album cover” look to your photos? Perhaps you are military men looking to salute your days in the service. Or are you Star Wars nerds that want to have a light saber duel on the steps of your venue? If you do have that battle, make sure you remember your Padawan training and give the camera a great show!

Speaking of stairs, I love brides or the stairs. Oh, and photographers, make sure that you consider those stairs for the couple as well. They make such a wonderful setting for those scattered groups or large parties that need to fit neatly in a shot without being a panoramic image.

Photo Credit: Fairy Godmother Weddings

Even if all you have is a more modern and slightly dim stairwell, you may be surprised to see what a fantastic shot can be achieved. The fun angles, sharp lines, and extreme shadows that occur there make for a very striking backdrop when the subject is such an elegantly outfitted subject. More romantic styles can be achieve by adding rose petals or soft editing to enhance the glow of marble or mahogany.

They can give such a fun element to the moments before walking down the aisle or getting dressed. This particular shot brings to mind the White Rabbit and his “I'm late! I'm late! For a very important date!” as the bride runs for the alter. Perhaps it is the clock tower on the right side, but I actually adore the fairy tale element it calls to mind.

The grandeur and scale here leads me to the last of my favorite styles that will appear tonight, and the style I love shooting. I am talking about the distortion and scale of an amazingly framed image. The uncompromising shot that has you looking up a Gothic church or down a long row of trees in a woodland path. The kind of image that makes the backdrop outweigh the couple and still manages to tell a story.

I have chosen a venue which lends to this style of image. The beauty and grandeur of the backdrop captures the eye without quite over powering the figures so long as they are dynamically posed. Remember that the key there is having a dynamic pose! Go for the drama of a dipped kiss or wait for a strong breeze to catch the bride's veil in a long gust. Remember that man made structures are not the only setting for something of this sweeping strength. Perhaps a combination of thunderstorms and romance is more they style of your wedding, but there needs to be some “movement” in the image to capture the attention, but it will bring about a wonderful result that will certainly not disappoint.

Photo Credit:  Club Corp.

Deep Blue Eyes

I love when a boudoir shoot can give such great images that I am not looking at them later thinking about how I should have shifted her hand, or moved a bracelet, or changed a light position.  This was one of those shoots.  While not everything was a gem, I adore this shot.  It is one of the moments when I could have shot with my subject topless or completely nude and not even had to change a thing.

I always love shots like this in boudoir because they really focus on how much seduction there is in eye contact.  Keeping this outfit we went for a different type of eye contact and a pose that displays round faced subjects to their best potential.  I usually save this style of shot for late in an album when the intent is gifting a significant other.  contrast was the goal here, though I personally feel that a little more shadow or dark points would work to maximize this concept.

Then there is the idea of what happens when you choose to keep eyes closed, taking direct contact out of the story and keeping the mood low and warm.  The color choice for this shot and second outfit are of the model's selection, though I think the sky blue is helped with the coloration of her tattoo.  Here the focus is to invite the viewer into the image by letting the eye flow based on a change of color.

You may notice there I just made a statement that the photo is not perfect in my eyes.  I believe in admitting when improvement can be made and in this case the model is lovely but the artist side of my brain is focused on what to change and make better in the next shoot.  That is the only way I could ever improve, and I encourage everyone to look at their work and do the same thing.  At the moment I am booking boudoir less often and wishing to increase those sittings, and the best way to improve business is to raise the quality of your product.

Alright darlings, in the next two days I will post the second half on my list of favorite wedding photos.  I will also be updating some of my wedding images from this season, sharing favorites with all of you patient darlings.  Until then, keep improving and keep smiling!

Dancing In The Rain

Please remember that if you like the work on any of these photos, you should look up the studios responsible - each is one I have seen work from and found something I enjoy; all are listed so that you can find them for your event.  

I intended to make a post about building a home gallery, but I have not had time to do sufficient work on the visual aids, so that will be delayed until a later time.  Tonight I will tell you about the images I would love to capture, and perhaps have taken of myself if ever I feel satisfied with my weight loss and to ever allow anyone to take my photo again.  This will involve items from other photographers who's work I adore, and a discussion about changes I would make or things it makes me think about while reading.

While preparing for my marriage I thought about what I wanted to look like even at our tiny legal ceremony.  I knew that there was forecast for rain and that I would still look like I had at about five months pregnant.  My mother and I went dress shopping and I settled on a knee length dress in white cotton eyelet and bright pair of rain boots with matching umbrella.  this plays right into one of my favorite kinds of wedding photography... rainy day photos!

Photo Credit: www.elizabethannedesigns.com

I adore the kind of people that don't let those moments ruin their day... the ones that go out of their way to make the most of it are even better.  They make shooting so much fun because they don't let the uncontrolled moments get them down.  They go with it and get some amazing photos even though the weather might just be out of control. 

Photo Credit: Scott Zuehlke Photography

The same goes for snow days and winter brides.  The women who risk a blizzard on their big day are my heroes!  I also adore the girls who go for wintery wedding coats over their gowns. If a coat isn't your thing, mittens can be such a classy addition that can really make the winter feeling read even in snow-less moments.  I am also a fan of seeing poinsettias in wedding bouquets, perhaps because I feel they just don't get the love they should for being such bold flowers.

Dressing for inclement conditions was a part of my considerations for my wedding gown this year because we risked a serious chill by planning an outdoor event on the coast in hurricane season.  I even had to trade open toe shoes for boots my freshman year of high school when we had a dusting of snow on prom night in early May... but that kind of hazard is par for the course in what my nerdy friends and I refer to as living "Beyond The Wall".

Padmé Amidala as played by Natalie Portman in
Star Wars Episode II: Attack of the Clones

Hooded Wedding Gowns may be the most beautiful thing in the world.  I believe I am biased here because my own mother made her own wedding gown with a simple, flattering hood.  I could not find a copy of any of her wedding photos so I will go with a well known hooded wedding gown from one of my favorite movie series.

I am not a massive fan of the heavy embroidery and beading that make this hood appear cumbersome, but the flow of the lace is lovely and highly complements the flowing twists of hair.  I suppose using a Star Wars reference while writing about weddings solidifies my nerd status in a new way.  That aside, this does prove my feeling that hoods make for a lovely detail and perfect opportunity to take the face framing shot that the bride will want to keep forever as a token of her special day.

I am a lover of the image that comes from one of the rare moments that standing square to the lens can complement the bride.  Hoods allow for an ideal cover over shoulder which otherwise might appear bulky so brides can give the full force of direct eye contact without the downside of looking like a linebacker.  The elegant gesture of your ring hand holding the edge carefully away as though lowering the hood for a kiss can be a fantastic way to show the new jewelry.

Photo Credit: Jeff Stone

The next image is really something for the groom.  If anything speaks to the masculine element in a wedding it is the fantastic photography of that sexy car that carries the couple away to start their new life together.  For emphasis on the sexy car moment I had to refer to male friends on mine and gauge their level of drooling over several beautiful autos but it came down to what they felt best told a man's story.  I think it was all the more awesome that this car happened to match the wedding colors perfectly.

Personally, I am waiting for next summer when a close friend of mine is having her own wedding.  There has been discussion of her having a fire truck as the wedding vehicle as a salute to her husband's years on the fire department and work as an EMT.  Their ceremony is taking place in the hay field of his family's dairy farm and gives me hundreds of ideas for fun photos with a tractor.  I feel a tractor would be a perfect prop since she and actually met at an agricultural college where we were both in a program centered on equine science.  I want to see the bride enjoying her day and make use of perspective to get something much like this shot from a senior photography session back in May.

Akelis Studios Photography

For the moment I am going to stop the list here.  There are many more things I cannot wait to try, but this was only meant to be a little taste of what I have in my head as an artist.  Brides looking to book and willing to try any of these are welcomed to contact me so that we can discuss their vision.  My job is to please the client first, meaning that your needs come before my artistic dreams.

Photoshop For My Face

Skincare is an essential first step in preparing for a photography session or wedding, and something that can actually reduce your photography costs. Tonight, that will be our topic and you will get a peek into my world in actual images of my skin and face and items thanks to Google and a few other places.  So we will begin with a photo from about six years ago, when I was somewhat more comfortable with my looks and willing to be on the model's side of the camera. This is an untouched photo from the summer of 206 while I was spending time climbing trees with one of my god-kids and my then boyfriend.

Why am I letting you see this?

This is rare, I actually hate being on "that side" of the camera because I feel like my job is behind the lens. I had my days as a model and those days are well and truly over. I am happy with how I have aged and that I could still pass for much younger. I still get acne since hormones are great, but all in all my skin is soft and in such lovely condition and is quite pale and pink. I have ginger kid skin, it doesn't tan and has pretty little freckles when I spend enough time in the sun.

To keep it clear of the worst acne, I use a multistage process that all models and rides should use to prepare for their day in front of the camera. Make-up is actually not that essential if you make sure to use a good care regiment and should be viewed as an aid not a requirement. Think of it as a prop, there if you want something a little extra, but never meant to be dominating the scene.

iStockPhoto image via Goggle

Stage One: DRINK WATER! 

Seriously people, water will flush out your system, help manage your weight, and improve your skin by actually helping keep a healthy glow. It actually also improves hair as well, though we are covering skin today, hair is another topic completely and not something I am particularly great with in all truth.

The typical requirement is six full 8oz glasses of water per day, and make it plain water or water with a spritz of lemon. Your water should not have calories. I drink about two 2ltr bottles a day when I am shooting at a location and about four glasses of water per day. I also drink juice, milk, and some soda or a glass of wine every now and then, but I am a water with lemon kind of girl and it is awesome.

Stage Two: Proper Skin Cleansers Are Essential.

At minimum, you should be washing you face with a gentle cleanser twice per day and using an exfoliating scrub one to two times per week at maximum. Cleansers are not simply any old soap, but should be something mild enough to maintain a balanced level of skin's natural oils, invigorating to encourage healthy cell growth, and something that will wash clean so it will not clog pores.

I personally use products from my retail job for make-up removal and loving care of my sensitive skin. I still have "teenager skin" which is sensitive, oily in the T-zone, and prone to stress induced acne that got worse postpartum. I have a combination of products, one is a very mild make-up removing cleanser that clings to the mascara and foundation just enough to pull it away without making my skin feel stripped, and the other has an awesome coarse sugar and charcoal combination to exfoliate away the damaged layers and sunblock that can build up quickly if they are not treated daily.

Step Three: Toners And Moisturizers Should Be A Daily Product. 

iStockPhoto image via Goggle

Toners and moisturizers are not the same thing and both need to be used in sequence for proper skincare. Toners prepare the skin by allowing the pores to empty themselves of harmful agents, reduce the excess oil, and allow a hydrating barrier before tinted products. Toners for daily use should NOT be harsh acidic items or require immediate removal. An ideal toner is something to clear out pores and can even be used through-out the day in a spray form to maintain a matte finish to the skin by reducing the build-up of oils and other skin assailants. Toners should be applied after cleansing and prior to moisturizers, make-ups or sunblocks.

Next should be a moisturizer with an SPF or equivalent for protecting against sun damage. Remember that not all are made equal and you will need to find the right one for your individual needs.Those with oily skin might want to look for a product with some citrus agents as they are a natural oil reduction method while anyone finding they get dry or patchy skin should aim for a product with lavender or rose to enhance quality and balance while encouraging a healthy glow.

You may want to consider a lighter moisturizer for day use, perhaps tinted for coverage of mild skin imperfections if you are self conscious or prone to wearing make-up but have oily or sensitive skin. At night your cream should be a little thicker and leave a dewy tone to the skin so it can prevent that water loss that happens at night as we sleep.

Step Four: Tear Yourself Every Now And Then.

Trying to relax while pregnant by using a
mint mask from LUSH.

Exfoliating and weekly skin treats are a great idea even if all you do is lay on the Couch with slices of cucumber on your eyes and a glass of wine to sip. Find or make a sugar scrub that will encourage healthy new growth of your skin. I enjoy making my own skincare at home, and you would e shocked to find out how many of the expensive products we buy are absolutely a waste of money because all of their ingredients are available at your greengrocer for less than ten dollars.

If you are looking for something pre-mixed but don't want to spend a fortune, there are other options out there too. I am a huge fan of the face masks from LUSH: Handmade Cosmetics because they each do something wonderful and are not a “one for all” answer. Each one is made with something different to sooth, tighten, reduce oil, add moisture, or just help you relax and detoxify from all the daily damage. They smell amazing and contain real natural ingredients like chocolate, honey, aloe, garlic, and avocado. They do need to be kept cold and have a short shelf life... but the effectiveness will make you understand why the attention to detail in each formula makes them so much more than just one more thing for your skin.

Step Five: All Over Awesome Is Important.

Original Soaps Enterprises -
Star Wars fan bundle for $10.

Photography doesn't just involve the face. Sure, we want to see those pretty eyes and lovely smile, but remember to take time for the rest of you. Shower gels, soaps and body products abound, and it is up to your personal tastes to find the ideal for you. I am a fan of citrus soaps, most of all the big bar of lemony goodness that lives in my shower and makes my whole house smell of grapefruit and lemon.

Just as with your face, exfoliating is important for legs, arms, and hands where skin becomes rough and dry very quickly. Exfoliating prior to shaving reduces razor burn and moisturizing after each shower or bath is essential.  Pumice products, sugar scrubs, and other options abound so find one you love.

Be sure to select the right level of hydrating moisturizer for your body too. This should be heavier than your face cream and applied with a minute or two to sink in before putting on your clothes for best results. You may also want to consider something with a soft glowing finish if you are looking for great photographic skin... but stay away from self tanners. Actually, tanning of any kind in the week right before photos or a big event is not always a good idea because you risk the dreaded orange haze that photographers then have to correct. If you want a glow without the tan, a slight bronze dusting powder might be just what you are looking for; giving a sexy hint of summer color while not having a lasting tawny. Be aware of how well your choice of duster stays on the skin if you are wearing white or light shades, you don't want a nasty line on your outfit either.

Legs and feet are important and should be given some love, most of all if you are getting ready for wedding photography. Wedding shoes make for fantastic photos and you will need to prepare your hands for those ring pictures. This means a manicure or pedicure is in order. Simple at home ones work just fine if you are on a small budget, and since I have never hand a professional manicure or pedicure you can bet that has been my solution. Just have a more practiced friend paint your nails if you are worried about the finish needing to look just right, I cannot tell you the number of times in college I painted my roommate's nails or had her do mine before a night out. Pick fun colors and go for broke, color is your friend!

My Rennie Side.

Step Six: SUN BLOCK IS YOUR FRIEND!

SPF moisturizers are fantastic. I use one under my thin base make-up which also contains an SPF rated agent. I am outside at least two hours per day with my toddler, who also wears infant safe sunblock. If you cannot find something you love, I suggest looking at a baby safe product as they are very mild, have a high SPF rating for ginger kids and light skinned lovelies that burn in the bright light just like me.

In 2008 I went on vacation to Las Vegas with the man who was my boyfriend at the time. He and I are still friend and both agree that the trip out there might have been one of the coolest things we ever did as a couple. That trip was a huge adventure and I went prepared for the sun and sexiness with a full bag of tricks for the face and plenty for free space on my digital camera's memory cards.

But even if you don't live or vacation in crazy climates that can dry you out... sunblock is essential.  I use it while working weddings, chasing the baby around a playground, and covering my family shop selling costumes for Steampunk, Renaissance, and Civil War reenactments in the Northeast.

Step Seven: Minimal Make-up Is A Great Idea.

Not that you can really tell, but I am not a fan of make-up in general. I go for a brown and pink pallet over my pale-pinkish skin. I let my freckles show through as much as possible, dotting concealer under my eyes and on trouble spots when needed. It makes everything light and simple and lets who I am show through. On rare occasion I wear a darker eye style or a stronger lip, but that only happens when I am dressed for an event and never when I am working. Actually, I try to wear little or no make-up while shooting because it just creates a mess on the camera.

This is in a folder marked 2008 and other photos seems to support that date
so it is a tad dated but still fairly accurate.

I will never tell a client not to wear any make-up, but I encourage a reduced amount so that their natural highlights and shapes can show. The face has it's own contours and make-up can even be used to change those, tricking the eye and the lens for good or for ill and making work complicated at times. Editing can fix a truly poor make-up job to a degree, but even that does have limits and the costs for editing time can build quickly. In the end, expecting to look like a Hollywood star when not hiring a high quality make-up artist to make that look may not bring the expected results.

Anyway... since you saw that untouched photo of my in the beginning, I'll end with the version of me that I wish could appear every day. Retouched, made-up, and posed to maximize the points about my face that I don't mind so very much.  I'm not sure what the backdrop was, but I'm not going to complain since it allows you to see the the subject better.

Shoe Fetish

Beautiful stems from a boudoir shoot in May.

I adore shoes.  It may be one of the few very feminine traits that I keep in my life.  I adore them but I hate shopping for them.  So I naturally accost other women and ask where they bought "those shoes".  Actually, I ask men that question too, but that is because I love men's boots.

I mention my shoe fetish because I am currently obsessed with wedding shoe photography.  I make sure that the shoes get love in boudoir images and I am looking forward to more fashionista brides giving me a chance to get great shots of sexy wedding shoes. Lately the style has gone back to something white or ivory to match their gown, but I adore the girl brave enough to pull a set of hot pink pumps from the shelves of bland white stems.

Raw image from a shoot in May, love that color!

I don't wear heels when out with my husband because we are nearly the same height. My daily kicks are simple ballet flats in black or brown based on what matches my outfit. They allow me to chase the toddler around, do my shopping, and not cut open my feet while walking along rocky roadways as I make my way to a location shoot. I wear an old pair of running shoes as I go to my mundane retail job, but even that is simple and black to match the required black and white dress code. 

 

Hidden in the back of my closet is a very different world. A row of sexy kitten heels in shiny black, pale pink, bedazzled silver, and gold-flecks on a cork base. I had a pair of sultry red until I ran them into the ground from going to the club in college, wearing them to work in fashion forward New York, and just generally loving them until they had to be put down.

Such a fan of her heels, this girl is not shy about height and she is already tall!

I post all this because I am working on ideas for shots with brides. I am also working on upcoming shoots with a few new models that will include shoes as central to my theme. And I post this because every once in a while I need to remind myself how being girly is just fine.

Productivity & Less Than That...

I was supposed to work my part time retail job today, but that did not happen.  Family sickness prevents Mommy from working outside the house, so I spent the day with a cuddly baby in my lap while making progress in other areas.  I made templates for albums for Boudoir sessions.  I love the new software I am using for these books, and it gives me time to play with them a bit.  Building the wedding album for my last wedding wa really the firsttest of a finished product, and it went so smooth that I think this will allow me to cut time and still keep a print budget in line.

My favorite part of today was getting to build my own album to use as a test prop for client meetings.  I am using images of the cuddly baby to do this album.  I might eventually use this as a default for cake smash albums as well, but that will come with my ability to order more display books as time passes.  Thankfully, I may just have the cutest test subject ever as the star of this book.

My first plan had been to use my own wedding photos, but since we have to postpone that again I will also need to postpone ordering an album.  Oh, yes, had I not mentioned the wedding postponement prior to now... we are forced to wait due to some unfortunate circumstances.  Eventually I will choose images and build a display wedding album, but that will wait for a bit.

Today was actually fairly good over all and so I leave you with some fun images of cake carnage! 

Crisp Red Apples

Some of the lovely red apples we picked last year.

I cannot begin to explain how much it has bothered me that my eyes are being light sensitive and giving me headaches when outside in really bright daylight.  I wanted to get photos of the baby playing out in the grass and perhaps going apple picking with my husband in the next few weeks.  Last year I managed to get a sitter for him so we could pick, but this year I think seeing him grab apples from the trees would be adorable.

Apples make great natural light subjects and I was able to get a rare photo of the elusive "husband not making a stupid face" last year.  I would love to think I could do the same this year, but that remains to be seen.  Perhaps they can be convinced to sit long enough for me to take a family photo of my two boys and be able to put it up here at the house.  I want something colorful and glowing to hang on the walls.  

The elusive husband.  This one is about to flee
from our camera as they are shy creatures.

Slow going this week on the final steps with this red wedding.  I took part time job at a favorite local store to help support the ever increasing diaper costs and it has eaten into the time I normally spend on editing.  The books are ready to send to the printer though and I am happy to say the bride did her final review and approved them this morning. 

That means no more wedding related orders until the end of this month.  I will have to find time to select great fall poses and work with the bride at my next booking so we can really take advantage of her date.  Leaves will be in full color at that point and we'll be able to really make much of the colors.